I have a few questions. Do you and the Sisterhood want female dominance or do want to dominate men? I, personally, accept that their should be a shift toward Sister dominance in sociological, political and spiritual aspects. However, I perceive from your page that the Sisterhood wants to dominate men, especially BSDM. Is this so?
Your slave, within the Goddess
FROM MASTER:
Can balance be found with one gender leading the other?
Friday, January 11, 2008 RE: dominance or dominate?
Category: Religion and Philosophy i believe in a conscious shift towards female leadership in the world. that would be dominance, by your definition.
however, men who are submissive, even if they are unaware spiritually, are fulfilling a vacuum that has been created by male violence and greed. submissive men crave being under leadership of a woman more than any other man today. so yes, i believe in harnessing those men in dominance over them. it is about creating an equal reaction to the action that men have taken over the past 8000 or so years.
the way that i do this is through bdsm. i intend to live my life under the philosophy of female supremacy which is to say matriarchy.
not all men are intended to be submissive in a bdsm type way. not all men are called to take the punishment of wicked men, as those who crave physical pain are called. bdsm is a sexual expression many times of male fantasy. my purpose in working in this field is to train women in this lifestyle of their higher calling. to own these men and control them sexually.
it's like a pendulum that swings. i, along with the others who have joined the sisterhood are attempting to create spiritual speed to give the movement towards true Goddess worship energy to come into being.
many men who choose to worship in a bdsm way are either sexually inclined or truly choose this way because they have felt the calling to serve women since they were very young. those that come to women to worship with and almost animal like instinct and understanding are cherished. those that come with sexual intent are trained. those the cannot learn this, are tossed aside.
From: a male
Date: Jan 23, 2008 7:22 PM
That's an interesting philosophy your group has concerning female supremacy. While I don't believe that one gender is automatically superior, I am somehow drawn to female supremacy like a moth to light. And I can't seem to shake it. I would define myself as a sexual submissive and have been since an early age. I have sessioned with a prodomme on 3 occassions and I've been humiliated & punished by women numerous times. The worst was a severe bare bottomed spanking by Domina Barbie in Philly back in 05. She made my ass bleed. It hurt so bad. Not in a good way either. I don't want to be spanked that hard again, but I'm sure I will at some point. I try to get by with fantasy but sooner or later I submit to real F/m punishment. I see women with beautiful feet(like yours) and it sends me into a submissive headspace that I can't deny. I have often wondered if my condition is not the result of some karma type balance as you have suggested in your profile. That makes as much sense as anything else. Because I don't enjoy pain. Yet I've paid women to punish me in painful ways. I'm curious, do you do live sessions as a pro domme? My experience is that most pro dommes are only in it for the money. And very few have any real interest in female supremacy. It seems most actually prefer to dominate other women or feminize the men they dominate. I don't see it as pure F/m.
p.s. Tonight I will definitely have a respectful fantasy about being captured,humiliated and punished by you.
From: a smart young man
Date: May 30, 2008 4:22 PM
RE: i talked with a pathetic male dom yesterday...was so disturbing
Honourable Sister Superior,
I talked with a pathetic male dom ..and tried to convince him.
he only claimed that women are there to get pregenant and are born slaves...it was so disturbing. i told him one thing he couldnt answer...would he or any other master put his mother in that position,
who bore him for 9 months, who gave birth to him and who deserves respect. he couldn’t answer it...cuz he knew by generalising all women he had included his mom....i feel sorry for him and his mother....for whom he thinks like this. after this i feel more proud to be a submissive and am happy that i have found the truth from my Mistress.
Hope everything is fine on Your side....the material You wrote on Your profile was really attractive
...would love to talk to You more Ma'am
Regards slave
FROM MASTER:
he is a dying breed. i know this because mother earth is moving towards her awakening. when she does, they won't matter one bit. let's all make it happen with our preaching the truth. i applaud you for taking the time to educate him. sadly, that kind of person cannot learn. he will have to be shown his place, rather than taking it like you apparently have wholeheartedly. you are superior to every un-enlightened male...
From: a smart young man
Date: Jun 4, 2008 9:06 AM
Honourable Sister Superior,
Hope You had a nice day.
My Question is the one which may sound a bit strange but again this is my point of view
its about the act which many submissives and dommes like...the "sissification".
Why cant a male submissive practice submissiveness in a true form..i mean i think that to encourage sissification means to go against female supremacy... cuz this means that a male submissive has to wear the clothes of the other Sex and act like the other Sex(which is the superior one) in order to act as a submissive....i being a sub consider it realy against female supremacy theory...cuz i think we should encourage the scenes in which a person using his masculine features is a submissive, to tell the world that yes men are born submissives ...why do they have to act as a girl to be a submissive.
This thing i realy dont undersdand..Please guide me, cuz You are much more experienced than me.
Take Care Honourable Ma'am,
Regards slave
FROM MASTER:
for a man to be sissified, is to take on the stereotypical gender role, generally assigned to the woman. for a man to be made into a sissy, is to enforce the concept that man, can be the weaker sex in a situation, removing masculine/feminine archetypes. when the woman sissifies the man, this makes the act of becoming a sissy, not one of gender but of submission to the higher one in the relationship.
now, for many men, they have an internal need to become sissified. they desire it and yearn for the chance to be made in a sissy.
the entire purpose of these "games" people play, is to move society away from roles generally assigned to one gender or the other.
again, the ultimate goal is to move into a mind set where gender is nothing and androgyny is truth. the creator of our universe uses both female and male aspects to create. in the spiritual hierarchy, above these electrical polarities there is a non-dual nature which is the original source of everything.
SS
From: foot doggie
To: Sister Superior
Subject: General scenario set up?
Sun, 25 May 2008 18:34:13 +0000
Hi my precious foot goddess,
To enhance the impact of role playing during our intended rendezvous, I am just jotting down a few thoughts to help re-enact scenarios I cherish from my past memories. Whatever suggestions/ideas you have that turn you on with my abject humiliation at your feet are most welcome too. I hope to detail the scenes I would love to enact shortly.
YOUR APPEARANCE
· Heavy facial make up around the eyes, cheeks and lips so scary that it would make me quiver on my knees at first sight
· Hair done up to accentuate your cheek bones and your stern, strict yet seductive looks
· You are scantily dressed in skimpy outfits like sexy see thru lingerie or negligee or bikini thongs to barely cover yourselves so as to seduce me to the fullest. Please keep your clothing to a minimum. No latex, rubber or vinyl clothing please.
· Totally bare legs and naked feet - no hose, stockings, fishnet, socks, absolutely nothing to hide, obstruct or hinder their natural view
· Long shapely toe nails to extend up to or beyond the tips of your toes. No polish or clear polish OK. Otherwise, preferred colors are pink, orange or bright red nail polish.
· PLEASE, PLEASE GROW YOUR TOE NAILS LONG AND SHARP, JUST THE WAY I LOVE TO WORSHIP THEM. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THAT IN ADVANCE.
· SHOES Sharp pointy stiletto heeled sandals, thin soles (not platform soles), just a couple of spaghetti thin straps fully exposing your toes and arches and heels.
· A whip dangling from your hand - single tail whip, flogger or bull whip or horse whip, especially when making your entry to the scene.
· PLEASE ALLOW ME TO HELP SELECT YOUR SHOES AND WHIPS AND OUTFIT FROM YOUR WARDROBE PRIOR TO OUR SESSION.
MY PREFERENCES
· I am always on a collar and leash, may be even a separate leash for each Mistress. Blindfolds may be used as needed in the scene. But please, no other restraints like tying me up or putting me in stock or in a cage
· I am generally on all fours or on my knees or prostrate on my back or stomach at your feet.
· I am officially your "doggie" or "foot doggie" but you may call me other nasty names too
· I do enjoy the sounds of harsh intense and prolonged whipping from one or all of you as I watch you derive sadistic pleasure from my cruel punishment. But please, no marks or extreme pain while whipping or trampling me. You may cover me with some thick towel or robe or some other protective cover.
· I prefer humiliation that is heavy on verbal abuse, name calling, mind games, psychodrama, mental torture.
· Pleasure yourself to orgasm while seducing me to the utmost but denying me the same.
Please message me on my phone when you have read this. I will be calling you soon.
- your foot doggie
FROM MASTER:
foot doggie,
I am tried to explain this to you before, i do not do things based on a mans wishes. if you were to be in my home, you would be under my rules. i am sorry to inform you that i cannot agree to your scene. i am not interested in dressing up in sexy clothes and pleasuring myself in front of you.
I am a real lifestyle domme. do you know what that means? i believe women are superior to men, that is why my name is sister superior.
Yes, I will take your money if i spend my precious time with you. but, i am not going to role play like this. I did it at chloes for fun, to understand the angle of pay for hire "play" dommes.
This is the problem with the bdsm scene today, women who don't understand the philosophical points of female superiority have turned it into a game where men get to play their fantasy out. I blame women for this travesty for it is the women who have trained the little male doggies, like you, to think they are in charge and can dictate what takes place during worship.
Do you know what worship means? true worship happens when a person gives everything to a superior being. you telling me what will happen, is your idea of a game. When you were a child what happened to you was true domination and they controlled your life. Now, you are replaying something you think you cannot attain again in life, the experience of total surrender. That kind of experience is possible, but you have to let go of your preconceived notions of how it should take place.
SS
from: male
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Dear Sister Superior,
Your blogs really impressed me. You are a very intelligent and thoughtful writer. I enjoyed all of the entries but I was struck hard by your analysis of Femdom, the D/s scene and the coming change from a patriarchal to a matriarchal world society. I had never heard about the cycles of change which you described and found it really fascinating. I am glad that I had the chance to learn something new.
I have been thinking some of the same things you wrote but, perhaps in different ways. Still, my conclusion is the same. I do believe that our world is moving towards a female controlled society. I see it slowly happening but happening, nonetheless. I notice that more women are getting college degrees and pursuing graduate programs than men. I notice that women are slowly moving into higher political offices and taking higher positions in management of companies. In addition, women continue to outlive men and continue to make up a greater percentage of the world population. Countries where women are treated poorly are slowly rethinking their past approach once they realize that their populations are dwindling and, of course, there is no life without women.
Many will still say that men are stronger but I do not see pure brawn as meaning much in this modern age. Many jobs that once required strong backs use machines. Even in the military, more and more is done with technology rather than use of brute strength. So, in many respects, the supposed big advantage for men has already begun to falter.
I agree with you that a female dominated society has a better chance at bringing peace and less hostility. Men operate through fear, greed and anger. I can attest to that. It would certainly be a huge positive for everyone if women ruled. I think that men might be able to relax a bit and not be driven so much by those negative emotions. I also think it would be more positive with respect to relationships.
I know that, for me, there is something really special about being with a naturally dominant woman, her sense of control, her intelligence, her intuition and her desire to nurture those who approach her with respect and humility. I think most men would love to have that in their life. Unfortunately, in today’s world, men are truly afraid to admit this or to allow for the possibility that maybe they might be better off if the woman in their life were in-charge. I think there is still quite a long way until this sentiment disappears. All of us men possess it, even if it is unconscious and it is hard to get rid of it completely.
Gosh, I have written an awful lot and I really hope that I have not bored you. I really just wanted to say that I appreciate what you wrote and am glad that I had a chance to read it.
Take care.
FROM MASTER:
hello, male,
gender in the material realm, personifies spirit and it's opposites. which is to say; x and y, or positive and negative charges. these polar opposites are the reason life exists in this dense dimension.
the only reason life began on earth is because perfect balance allowed sun and water along with other elements balanced to perfection. nature is perfect, mother earth is perfect as She was. but not now, since a new breed of intelligence is fighting for understanding, that would be humanity. we are now here, attempting to evolve and find balance.
men and women have become polarized by culture today and conditioned to believe that certain traits belong to one gender or the other. this is unbalanced and incorrect. many "female" traits should also be "male" traits and vice versa. ultimately, the truth is neither gender will be superior, since the soul is neither male nor female but exists in perfect balance outside the need for separation.
the separation, the battle of the sexes, is the human lesson. the female gender lost her equality with the male when the male gender assumed (with violence and force) superiority as a way of gaining. it had to happen this way because as a collective, humanity is like a computer attempting with different variables and queries to find the solution.
female domination, be it sexual or pain oriented is booming today. this is simply another query from the collective. the collective meaning the human computer that will continue to ask the same question until it comes to the right answer. we are so small, our tiny little lives seems to last so long to us. but we are just infintesimal sparks, little tiny mechanisms whose sole purpose is to bring the answer to fruition.
so, because for so long male energy has dominated this collective, to truly answer the equation we are seeing the resurgence of the female, who is superior in many ways to the male. generally speaking, female characteristics include, sexual power men crave, spiritual intuition, ability to care for with tenderness, offer judicious solutions etc.
now i am not saying women are not cruel, wicked etc. but from stereotyping, the case is generally that women are the kinder between mom and dad. now back to my point of gender roles. in order to shake things up and bring true balance back, women MUST continue to assume roles considered to be masculine, such as violence and cruelty. this is the purpose BDSM is fulfilling. it is all about balancing the equation.
ps.
men have always loved women's feet. there is something very powerful to a man worshipping the very lowest part of the female form.
From: a male
Date: Jan 23, 2008 9:24 PM
Thank You for taking the time to respond. Some of these ideas are a little deep for me right now...especially this late. One thing, I agree that the soul is genderless. It's a belief I adopted on my own when I was younger. It's funny to me when people argue over whether God is male or female, black or white, christian or muslim, etc. However, I'm not so sure our purpose as humans is to find the answers. Maybe, Maybe not.
Getting back to the soul being genderless, I sometimes wonder how a male can feel trapped in a male body as a woman. That could mean that the soul is not genderless. But I think it has more to do with the way society labels certain characteristics as masculine or feminine as you have mentioned. This could leave a male with "feminine traits"
to think he is trapped in a man's body I suppose.
You are right about femdom booming these days. But to me it looks more like a sell out. Complete with posers in and out for the buck. I think the real display of female power is not in the bdsm industry but in the colleges and boardrooms where it would seem women are taking control. To a lesser degree I see white women who openly date black males as a further display of power gained in the last 30 yrs. That was still a big no no when I graduated high school in 83. Many women did not have the courage to openly date blacks back then. Now they flaunt it in our faces and it is painful for some guys even now.
My attraction to women's feet is very strong and I'm aware that it's not all that uncommon. I read in a reflexology article that Mark Anthony had a "pathetic enslavement" to Cleopatra's feet. Often fondling them in public. That's the way I would desribe my attraction too...as a pathetic enslavement. However, I would say the majority of men are not into feet. And not all men who are into feet have a submissive reaction because of it. I do and I will dream of yours tonight. They are beautiful. My attraction to them makes me feel submissive to you.
p.s. Are you familiar with OWK and the rules for male citizens of that establishment? It may be based on male fantasy, but it still gives women absolute control. I have some pretty good F/m sketchings from that site. I can send them to you if you're interested in seeing them. One displays the Symbolic Punishment of the Male Race. It's a ceremony that is actually performed at OWK during annual celebrations from what I have read. Never been there.
FROM MASTER:
hello, male,
yes, i am familiar with OWK. and yes again, much is based on male fantasy. however, even with this "boom" and the fact that many involved are posers, women there for money and men there for sex, it is still a good start. there has to be a start somewhere. bdsm really deals with the spiritual side of goddess worship and sexual dominance.
truly, women are the sexually dominant between the genders because men will do most anything to get sexual satisfaction from us. therefore, sexually we dominate because although we crave sexually as well, we do not go coo coo over what you have between your legs.
you are totally correct in stating that the most prevalent place women are taking control is in business and politics too. this is where the outward changes can really take place and impact smaller units such as the family and home. mainstream changes are what will impact the majority.
on dating black men, this goes back to the point about humans being one and removing the separations. i believe that people should be able to live how they want, without stigma.
there are not masculine vs feminine traits, i think. ultimately, i believe they are simply traits and instinctually gender chooses which will have which based on society. so for a man to feel trapped in his body, is more about how he feels he wishes to live his life. and being surrounded by society that seems to dictate how he should live, he might then feel trapped in his body.
about men and feet, yes i agree, not all men are submissive because they love women's feet. even if they are not submissive to a woman, simply being at her feet, is a submissive posture and therefore again, still a good start. it's all about small steps on every front.
SS
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
FROM MASTER: a collarme.com response to a slave's letter speaking of a pro-dom and her working his rear end to extreme punishment while requesting a more enjoyable CBT experience:
while whether personal or professional play differ only in that, in one situation a man pays immediately and in a relationship, it takes longer and costs more; many women do not understand true domination. your experience speaks to that as good, if not better than any other example i could offer. this women, without regard for watching your movement and understanding what you needed, created a situation where you did not desire to return. with true female domination a man cannot help but return as her willing slave. to beat a person senseless is not wisdom but a childlike bitterness. a youngish woman, attempting to satiate her daddy issues on a man's rear end. now, with that said, i still believe this to be correct and right to punish a man in this way, he must deserve it as reward or punishment. to have the Female Wisdom to know when pain in reward for good behavior, in other words; a "treat" and when pain is a punishment for disobedience, ah that is truly knowledge.
I learned this lesson on the rear end of a man.
Example of ideal male behavior
Email correspondence between Myself and a slave who wishes to be under consideration:
from: male
Dearest Master Dyme-Dacryphilia
i want to research or read a bit about each of these three people John mentioned. i think by doing this it will help me formulate more insightful questions. i want to give You better work than just rushing through to get something quick for You. As i am starting to think on this i need to say i don't mean to disappoint You. When i wrote earlier i was wanting to give You a fast letter back so I answered quickly with a hopeful deadline of tonight. My heart says to take time and think.
Each may have something different to offer You so i ask for tomorrow. Maybe nothing will differ in the questions. But I think it likely each will offer something to You with a bit different insight. i want to be smart when we write them and i think/hope this will get them to answer easier as each is tailored to their specialty or work areas.
Thank You for letting me know i am appreciated. i hope to present myself to You as someone You want to associate with. It is my sincerest desire to work for You. IHS ( In Her Service) To be a loyal extension of Your mind with ten fingers and toes to move things for You. i want to be respectful and yet confident ( in a healthy sense) when i am researching or assisting so the work is useful. i am a worker. If You can be the Organizer/Director i will be very dedicated to You. What i mean is please point me so i feel confident( and able to think) and that i am doing Your will and i will do everything to make the work good and You hopefully smile.
i like this project and feel involved. Thank You. Please also have a nice thanksgiving holiday.
From: Tastyguy
Date: Jan 1, 2010 1:38 PM..
Subject: what would you do?
Hello.....Lets just say you have magical powers and if you wanted you could shrink a person to whatever size you wanted.....Your having a drink with a good guy friend of yours and you know he has a crush on you. Your having a truth moment and he tells you that he has a fantasy about being shrunk to a couple of inches tall by a woman and then swallowed alive by her.....What would you say to him? Would you tell him what you could do? What would you do?
FROM MASTER: ........i have shrunk and eaten many men.........
From: Tastyguy
Date: Jan 1, 2010 6:14 PM..
what would you do?..........really?
Do you like it? :)
FROM MASTER: no i ate them as revenge.........
From: Tastyguy
Date: Jan 1, 2010 7:19 PM
haha! Did they want to be eaten? What would one have to do to be eaten by you then?
FROM MASTER: no they fought it. i tortured them.
From: Tastyguy
Date: Jan 1, 2010 7:34 PM
so who is the lucky person next on the menu? :)
FROM MASTER: remains to be seen.
From: Tastyguy
Date: Jan 1, 2010 7:39 PM
how do you like to shrink and eat your terrified prey? :)
FROM MASTER: i keep them in my cage for a few days. then i use my wand to shrink them. sometimes i eat them in soups, sandwichs, etc.
From: Tastyguy
Date: Jan 3, 2010 5:09 PM
Imagine this
We are in a room alone, you start to seduce me. You take off your shoes so you are barefoot.
You lay me down naked and start to rub the soles of your feet in my face
and all over. I begin to shrink. "whats going on" i ask. "shhhhhhh,
dont worry, this is gonna be the best night of your life"
When i would get to about 6" tall you would let me make love to the soles of
you feet, enjoying the feeling of me rubbing against them.
Then you put me between your legs and tell me to pleasure you for a while. I
would!. My tiny body rubbing your pussy til you orgasmed!
You would then play with me with your feet as i was shrinking smaller.
"What now" I ask, "What are you planning?" You look at me, your eyes slightly
glassed and your cheeks slightly rosy from your orgasm. "hmm" you say
with a cheeky little smile. Gently pick me up in your soft hands. "well
after i orgasm i like to eat some chocolate.............. .. i dont
have any so i guess il just eat YOU"
So im about 2 or 3" tall and sitting in your hand. Im in front of a beautiful giantess who is
about to eat me alive! I guess i would start to perspire a little (i
would be quite nervous as you could imagine). This would give me a
slight salty taste. You open your mouth and in i go, feet first. You
leave me sticking out you mouth just a little. Your tongue runs under
my front, chest, penis and legs. I feel smooth to touch, and a little
cold to start with. I will soon warm up however. Do you like how i
taste? Your getting the urge to bite into me and chew me up, but you
wont, you like me in one piece. You now slowly pout your lips out so
the hold me closer to my head and gently pull me in. You can feel me
struggling and you know im scared. Should you let me go? NO! You want
to finish what youv started, you want to teach me a lesson. YOUR GOING
TO EAT ME! You tip your head back and open your mouth wide, giving me
light and air. Im sliding back, my feet then legs start to fall in your
hungry awaiting throat. Yo move your tongue back and forth slightly,
edging me back further into your throat. My cock is hard and has been
since the start. I have been rubbing on your soft tongue, and now im
close. only my arms, shoulders and head are left and im trying to grip
hold but i cant. Its getting darker, your mouth is closing. This is it!
Your throat begins to tighten around me and your mouth is almost fully
closed. "Oh my god" "im cuming" *gulp* you feel me gently glide down,
down your throat. Feel me going further down till i reach your stomach.
You have taken antacids before hand so you dont digest me and you keep
swallowing air so i dont suffocate, and enjoy feeling me wriggle around
in there!
What do you think?
FROM MASTER: it sounds about right. mind if i post this conversation as a blog?
From: Tastyguy
be my guest :) so what could i do to get on your menu then?